Anyone who has had a conversation with me lately is aware of the fact that I have an obsession.
It’s a TV show call the Dog Whisperer.

Now, normally I wold be embarrassed too share this but this fabulous dog trainer
- Caesar Millan – is a natural coach.
I began watching the show to get some tips on training our new puppy
but now I watch it to see how he transforms people.
And he uses the same technique over and over.
His big technique? Energy.
Specifically the calm and assertive type.
Dogs are a great mirror to what is going on inside us.
When we are tense, frustrated or angry, they behave badly.
They cannot respond at their best when they do not experienced a “balanced pack leader”.
Funny, this is also true of children, spouses, relatives, friends, neighbours, business associates, customers and generally speaking, humans.
People and animals are always a mirror to our emotional state
*
if*
we pay attention.
Here is your coaches challenge for this week:
Before you begin any encounter with anyone, take a moment and ask yourself this question:
what is my emotional state right now?
or, if you are really good,
what energy am I projecting?
Tense? Calm? Nervous? Sad? Scared? Peaceful? Happy?
You would be surprised at what might change when you do this simple exercise.
P.S.
If you are not sure of your state, get a dog or ask a child.
They will tell you right away!
To your success,

Beth Hanishewski
Coach. Speaker. Author.
Mindset Coaching Inc.